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Creating a Civilized Divorce Video Vault

Introductory Offer

The Creating a Civilized Divorce Video Vault will have close to 200 videos covering the answers to as many questions as we can think of that will assist people who are separating and divorcing to create a civilized and respectful end to their relationship. And, in the case of couples with children, to redefine their relationship into a healthy, supportive co-parenting partnership.

The information is jurisdiction independent and is presented in short, to the point videos so that viewers can find exactly what they’re looking for without having to watch hours of less relevant video. It in no way replaces the need for lawyers, mediators, counsellors, financial advisors, mortgage brokers or any other professional. What it does do is provide people with information so that they can enter into their process of choice with confidence, preparation and hopefully some emotional balance.

At the moment there are 150+ videos loaded to the vault with the remainder to be made available between now and January 1st, 2014. At that time the product will become tiered, with approximately half the videos available for a Basic subscription and the entire Vault being available to a Premium subscriber. We will also be adding a set of tools – worksheets, workbooks, calculators – at an add-on price.

As our Introductory Offer we are offering your customers access to the complete, Premium, Video Vault for the Basic subscription price. As the additional videos become available between now and the end of this year, they will be loaded and become immediately accessible to all Introductory Offer subscribers.

This is a great opportunity for you to:

provide information to your clients and prospective clients that will help to make your work with them smoother and less contentious
receive 50% of the revenue we earn from your clients back to you in affiliate fees
help more and more people have a civilized divorce – which helps all of us make this world a better place!

You can use the email below (or one you write yourself) to send to your list, or specific people you know who are in the separation or divorce process. You can place a link on your own website resources page. You can share with your social media community, your prospective clients, any group of people you know who might benefit from this product. No matter who your community might be, there will always be a percentage of them that are facing a separation or divorce. Images and sample copy for all of these marketing avenues are provided below!

To become an affiliate CLICK HERE.

If you are already an affiliate CLICK HERE to access your affiliate account to get your unique link for this product offering.

SECTION 1 – PROMOTIONAL EMAILS

Here are a couple of emails we recommend you use (or edit and use!) to promote this product to your list. Please make sure to INSERT YOUR UNIQUE AFFILIATE LINK in the email copy where you’re told to do so. You MUST do this in order for us to be able to track your sales.

NOTE – See below for the changes you need to make to the emails before sending them to your list.

Replace FIRSTNAME – insert the relevant code your email marketing system uses.
Choose one of the subject lines that you feel best suits your list, or write a new one of your own.
Embed your custom tracking link behind the underlined words and remove where it says [YOUR AFFILIATE LINK]
Use the appropriate SIGN OFF.

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Create a Civilized Divorce – A Great Offer for You!
Do You Know Someone Who’s Separating or Divorcing?
Divorce – There ARE Ways To Do It Well.
Over 150 Tips to Make Your Divorce Go Smoothly

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Hi FIRSTNAME,

Are you, or someone you know, facing a separation or divorce?

This is one of the most unsettling, unnerving, uncomfortable (OK just plain awful) events that occur in most people’s lives.

I want to introduce you to a special woman who has helped 1000′s of couples to create lasting, practical agreements for all of those logistical details that are likely giving you nightmares at the moment.

If you would like your separation and divorce to be as respectful and civilized and pain-free as possible, you need to check out what Jane has created for you.

Jane Warren is a Separation and Divorce Mediator who has taken all of her 12 years of experience and created a Video Vault containing over 150 short, to-the-point videos which will answer as many of your questions as she could think of!

I highly recommend that anyone facing a separation or divorce check out these videos before diving into a potential expensive, antagonistic, emotionally draining process.

Jane is offering you 10 of these videos absolutely free and the rest at an amazing Introductory price of only $47.

Check out this great offer by clicking the link below

Creating A Civilized Divorce Video Vault [YOUR AFFILIATE LINK]

Preserve your children, your money and your sanity!

[SIGN OFF]

P.S. The ideas and suggestions in these videos can be applied to your situation today. Even if you are well into the divorce process it’s never too late learn how you can make things go more smoothly!

Check it out today! [YOUR AFFILIATE LINK]

P.P.S. If you know someone who is going through a separation or divorce PLEASE pass this on to them – you will be doing them a huge favor!

SECTION 2 – BANNERS

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SECTION 3 – IMAGE AND COPY FOR YOUR WEBSITE RESOURCES PAGE

You can use the provided image on your website. Please make sure you USE YOUR UNIQUE AFFILIATE LINK with this image when you display it on your website. You MUST do this in order for us to be able to track your sales.

Alternately, you can combine one of the images from above with the text provided below (or text of your choice!) in order to achieve the exact formatting you are looking for.

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COPY FOR YOUR WEBSITE

(Combine this with an image from the Banners section and then link it with your affiliate link)

Find yourself facing separation and divorce?

Interested in preserving your children, your money and your sanity?

The Creating A Civilized Divorce Video Vault has over 150 short, to the point videos that will give you the confidence, knowledge and the strength to make good decisions at this unnerving, unsettling, uncomfortable stage of your life!

SECTION 4 – COPY FOR FACEBOOK AND TWITTER

Have a following on Facebook and Twitter? Use the social media copy below to promote the product to your fans and followers. Please make sure to INSERT YOUR UNIQUE AFFILIATE LINK in the suggested copy where you’re told to do so. You MUST do this in order for us to be able to track your sales. To shorten your link, we encourage you to use: goo.gl or bit.ly

FACEBOOK

A Civilized Divorce is not an oxymoron! More and more people are achieving this everyday. You can be one of them. {INSERT YOUR LINK}

Almost 7000 people a day are divorcing in the US (approximately 600 in Canada, 900 in UK, 330 in Australia). What if they all did that in a civilized fashion? How would that change our society? {INSERT YOUR LINK}

Divorce advice and direction to help you make the best of an unpleasant situation. Don’t let divorce destroy your family or your life. {INSERT YOUR LINK}

Preserve your children, your money and your sanity. A Civilized Divorce is possible! {INSERT YOUR LINK}

TWITTER

A Civilized Divorce is not an oxymoron. {INSERT YOUR LINK}

Create a Civilized Divorce with video answers to all your questions. {INSERT YOUR LINK}

Divorce advice and direction to help you make the best of an unpleasant situation. {INSERT YOUR LINK}

Civilized divorce – preserve your children, your money and your sanity. {INSERT YOUR LINK}

A Civilized Divorce IS possible. {INSERT YOUR LINK}

SECTION 5 – GUEST BLOGS

Do you have your own blog? Use one of these articles as guest blogs or edit them and make them your own. Please make sure to INSERT YOUR UNIQUE AFFILIATE LINK in the suggested copy where you’re told to do so. You MUST do this in order for us to be able to track your sales.

BLOG ONE

Why Have a Civilized Divorce?

The two most common responses that I receive regarding the name Civilized Divorce are these:

1. Well, that’s an oxymoron
2. I want one of those … but my spouse doesn’t

The cynic and the defeatist! The reality is that it is not an oxymoron for a growing number of divorcing couples and that if you really want one, it is often yours to create.

Putting aside the question of “is it really possible?”, let’s look at the more significant question of “why would you want it?”. Most people will immediately answer with “it’s better for the kids” or “it will save us money”, but the single most important reason needs to be that it will allow you to heal, grow and move forward into a bigger and better life. And that focus is what will really allow your kids and your wallet to avoid the largest scars and even flourish as a result of your divorce.

And the key to it all is a genuine desire for the divorce to be civilized. Like an alcoholic who agrees to give up alcohol in order to keep his marriage together but goes right back to drinking when the coast seems clear, deciding to act in a civilized manner during your divorce while all the while harbouring desires for revenge and retaliation, will create a sham that you’ll be unlikely to sustain.

Your marriage is over. Perhaps things could have been done to keep things on a healthy path. Perhaps mistakes were made. Perhaps one of you was more committed than the other. Perhaps if you had addressed things earlier. Perhaps … That’s the past. What’s important is now and were you want your life to go in the future.

Having a civilized divorce creates a springboard for discovery, growth and the creation of a whole new life based on experience, knowledge and conscious choice. You have that choice. Even in situations where one party is determined to be as uncivilized as they possibility can, you still have the power to react and behave by matching their approach or refusing to engage at the same emotional level. Sure it’s difficult when met with a wounded, retaliating “wildebeest” but how far are you going to choose to let that invade and permeate your life?

Focus on respecting yourself and your partner, focus on the needs of the whole, focus on your own responsibility, focus on possibility and remember your sense of humour. And do that all for your own sake and because you truly know and believe that that is what is called for.

Jane Warren is a Registered Family Mediator who has assisted 1000’s of couples in creating their own civilized divorce. She has a video vault product full of over 150 videos providing you with everything you need to know about creating a civilized divorce for yourself. Click here to check out the video vault and received free, personalized videos to start off with {INSERT YOUR LINK}

BLOG TWO

The 10 Most Common Emotions Surrounding Divorce

Emotions come in many flavours, get described in many ways, get analyzed and classified in even more ways! In people going through separation and divorce, these are the top 10 emotions that I see everyday. You may recognize some of these in yourself, either where you are or where you’ve been. You may recognize some of these in your spouse. It may surprise you that some of these would make my “10 most common” list!

In alphabetical order!
Contempt –How could I possibly have married someone like you?
Despair – What will become of me and how can I possibly move forward from here?
Jealousy – How dare they be happy – no one will ever want me.
Guilt – Look at all the hurt I’ve caused – I need to pay for what I’ve done.
Loneliness – There will never be anyone out there for me.
Optimism – What’s possible now?
Relief – Thank goodness that’s over.
Revenge – You need to pay for what you’ve done to me.
Shame – I am worthless and unlovable – of course this happened to me.
Zest – I can do anything.

The important thing about emotions is that you allow yourself to feel them. Yes, even those “ugly” ones that you don’t want to admit that you have!

Emotions tend to come in waves and follow different patterns at different times. Don’t be surprised if you feel all of the above emotions at different times and sometimes even multiple of these at the same time. Your world has flipped upside down! And although you may move through the big waves of these emotions they will all continue to lap at your shore as you move on with your life.

So don’t be surprised (or self-recriminating) when these emotions appear. Remember, they are emotions they aren’t actions. And it’s the actions that cause trouble not the emotions. Feel what you feel, and act wisely.